I didn't spend
much time in Lexington, KY while I was growing up, just one
week per year on family vacations. But that was enough time
for my Aunt Sue to make a strong impression on me. Ever kind
and present in the moment, she made me feel special, protected,
and loved.
During our visits to Kentucky, I watched Aunt Sue tend to
her brood (5 boys and one girl!), and could feel that she
made each one of them feel special and loved.
This was no small feat with such a large, energetic, and
boisterous family. With all the noise and crashing about,
I was amazed to see how she made each child feel that when
she was talking to them, they were the only person in the
room. A little love and attention from my Aunt Sue went a
long way!!!
Aunt Sue recently passed. In my mourning, I pondered her
gifts and realized that one of my special gifts came from
her. When I go to a party or attend a networking event, I
naturally connect with every person in the room to make them
feel valued, supported, and welcome. I never knew where this
ability came from, and I'm so grateful that Aunt Sue had such
a strong impact on me. I know that when I treat people like
Aunt Sue treated people, the world is a better place.
I will miss my Aunt Sue deeply. Just knowing she was there,
in Kentucky, made the world a brighter place for me.
The reason I tell this story is this:
Don't forget that even spending a small amount of time with
someone can have a great impact on them. Always live to be
your best self and give the gift of your example to everyone
you come in contact with. In that way, you will be a great
contribution to the world.
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© Donna Schilder, PCC, Life & Business Coach of Glacier Point Solutions, Inc., 2007. Dschilder@aol.com (562)434-7822. You are welcome to “reprint” this article online as long as it remains complete and unaltered (including the “about the author” information at the end).
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