Entries by Donna Schilder

Life Planning for Couples

Imagine you’re trying to row a boat with your spouse and you’re both blindfolded, gagged, and have ear plugs in your ears.  Your spouse pulls one way, you pull another, you’re disoriented and you don’t know what direction you’re going in.  Even worse, you don’t know what direction you’re trying to go in. Would you […]

Prepare Your Mind for the Holidays

The holidays in Southern California are unique.  You can watch Boat Parades in your short-sleeved shirt, view the holiday lights of while riding in a Gondola, and stroll around the seaside villages while listening to carolers. Unique holiday experiences abound, but unfortunately, many of us self-generate so much stress during the holiday season we can’t […]

Ten Mood Lifters

  Sleep more (wake up naturally if possible) Take fish oil supplements List three things you’re grateful for Listen to uplifting music Get moving (aerobic exercise) Boost your serotonin level:  get 20 minutes of sunlight (with a hat but no sunglasses) Be more social Block your negative thoughts (when a negative thought pops into your […]

Recommended Reading for Leaders

  Encouraging the Heart:  Do you wish you were better at motivating your staff? Encouraging the Heart is a wonderful book on how to Increase your Ability to motivate your staff through encouragement. You will learn the Seven Essentials of Encouraging and will find tangible actions to take to be more encouraging. You will also find […]

10 Stress Management Tips

As Executive Coaches we help clients reduce their stress.  Here are 10 tips for Stress Management. 1. Take a deep breathing break. 2. Recognize the difference between things you can control and things you can’t control. Let go of things you can’t control. 3. Share the load. 4. Walk everywhere you can. 5. Try not to personalize […]